on imbalanced relationships

and dominance through submission

Are you more sensitive to dominating others or being dominated.

oh not me, I strive for balance, for equality in relationships.

Balance is energy moving in a constant state of flux.

Equity of pressure and outcomes is a still lake.

They do not stay that way long.

Balance is dynamic.

Balance is an illusion we see because we are constantly correcting from being off balance.

Balance is a dance of tension as is power and dominance.

Tango is the best illustrator of relational power.

When dancing the tango, the left hand of one partner connects with the right hand of the other. Their hands MUST press into each other. Tango needs tension.

When dancing the tango, one can lead by overpowering the other.

Much more interesting though, is when one leads by retreating. This is typically done by the female partner. He pushes. She yields. If they want to stay in contact, he can’t push too hard. She can’t yield too quickly.

When she yields?

He necessarily follows.

Thus in tango, the female partner dominates t…