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local therapist declares self 'avatar of unlikable behavior'

promises to 'keep up the good work'

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Jim Dalling
Oct 25, 2023
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Meeting colleagues is fun.

You never know what is going to come from people’s mouths.

At a recent event with some people from the mental health profession I was delighted to connect with some onederful people.

But, as it is at all things like this, I ended up rubbing someone the wrong way. I’m gritty and add friction. I have a different way of being in the world. I add behavioural diversity. That’s what comes from being both charming and unlikable. I’m not sure what people expect from me though.

Actually.

At therapist / mental health events here in Canada, people who come from my ‘life world’ are a distinct minority - white, male, married to a woman, father and with a home grown penis - how strange!

I provide a great service there. People who are looking to be perpetually offended always find me. Without knowing, I act as a stand in for every projected offense and every person they have perceived as damaging and harmful. I’m the avatar for all they see as wrong in the world. I get to play…

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